The Big 1-3

Well, even though I asked her not to, Hailey went ahead and turned 13 last Saturday. What's a mom to do? Throw her a surprise 13th birthday party, I guess! Since we went to see the Jonas Brothers in concert in August, it was understood that she wouldn't be having a party or presents this year. She was OK with that, and she knew that was the deal when we bought the tickets. But as her b-day grew closer, I started feeling bad. This is 1-3. A big one. So Elise suggested on the 13th that we throw her a surprise party and it was chaos from that moment on.

I figured this was the last year I could get away with a big theme, and so I decided to go with Project Runway. Hailey loves fashion design, and even wants to major in it in college. So I bought a bunch of fabric, and on the invitations I asked each girl to bring an old piece of clothing that they could redesign. Here's what the family room looked like. (It was 1 am when I did the poster, and you can tell! It had glitter all over it, you can't see it in the photo.)

So the day had been pretty boring for Hailey. She didn't complain, but I know she was going a little crazy. Greg took her to get a treat at 4 pm, and I then went crazy trying to get everything decorated before her friends arrived at 5:30 pm. The plan was for me to stand near the garage door and when she walked in I'd say "Hi hon!", and then they'd jump out. Her friends were so cute, totally excited to be surprising her. She walked in the door and she says she saw the streamers I'd hung up and thought "Oh that's nice." And then everyone jumped out, and she screamed "AHHH!" and ran and hugged one of the girls. It was so fun to see her totally surprised. Here's right afterwards, I forgot to have the camera out when she first got there:

l to r (back): Kenzie, Miranda, Raquel,Becca
front: Abby (her cousin), Hailey

I explained to her what we were doing and she was so excited. Everyone worked on their clothes while we had the Jonas Brothers playing, of course, and while we let the hot glue dry we had dinner. Since she didn't know about the party, she had picked Yoshida chicken and rice for dinner. Not wanting to tell her that really isn't party food, and she's not a big fan of pizza, we went ahead and made a big batch.

Kenzie, Miranda, Becca and Raquel

Abby checking out the fabric; hot gluing their clothes

After dinner we opened presents. Her friends said it was easy to buy for her, with her JoBros obsession. She scored!

Miranda's cute wrapping paper; Jonas flip flops

Two Jonas bags! How is she going to choose???

She also got a gift certificate for a manicure, some yummy popcorn and soda and a cute necklace Abby made for her. After presents, it was time for the fashion show. The girls got on their clothes, and accessorized with hats, shoes and bags. I asked my neighbor Sherie to come be one of our celebrity judges, and Greg had to ham it up as the other judge, of course.

He was in full-on 'designer' mode, if you know what I mean. He was hilarious! Each of the girls came down the runway and modeled their outfits, and they then came out together. Greg asked each of them about their outfits, what their motivations were, and basically just made them laugh. We had three categories for prizes: wearability, creativity and overall look.

Miranda and Becca

Raquel and Kenzie

The back of Abby and Hailey

The winners were Kenzie (wearability), Miranda (creativity) and Abby (overall). They wanted to pick Hailey for wearability, but since it was her party, they decided not to.
After this we ate eclair squares and it was time to go home. I'm glad Hailey has found a nice group of girls to hang out with here. She misses her friends in Lehi so much, but is getting more and more acclamated to life down south.
It was fun to surprise her with this party, and she swears she had no idea. Later that night she started piecing clues together saying, "So when you told me you were delivering stuff for scouts, was that when you took the invitations around?" etc. And then we laughed at how many times the secret was almost blown.
I am so lucky to be her mom, and I hope this year brings her great joy. She brings it to me each day, just by being herself. Thanks Hailey, for being such an amazing daughter.

A teenager is coming

I am going to have a teenager on Saturday. How did that happen? I just found out I was pregnant with her a few months back. Six weeks ago I felt her kick for the first time . I found out she was a girl last month. A couple of weeks ago she kicked my sciatic nerve and made me fall down the stairs. And just yesterday they placed her in my arms. So why does she keep saying she's turning 13?

Six months, pork and a confession

-We've been here in St George for six months now, I can hardly believe it. It feels more like home than I ever thought it would. I've gotten used to the red mountains instead of green ones. That's not to say that I prefer the red, I've just grown accustomed to the lack of greenery around here. It really is pretty in it's own way. How can you not be blown away when you drive through Zions Park? (I didn't take this picture.) It's finally started to cool down, and it's been an awesome 80 degrees the last few days.

-It's Conference weekend (when we get to listen to our Prophet and church leaders) and it's always a challenge to keep the little ones from not going crazy. This year I brought the little table into the family room and had coloring for the kids to do, along with some yummy treats if they'd be quiet so we could listen. It lasted for about half an hour. Thank goodness for TiVo.

-I found this fantastic recipe for Cafe Rio sweet pork, and it's very close to the real thing. (Cafe Rio is an awesome mexican restaurant that charges way too much for their food. Though it's worth it.) I also found the salad dressing, and it's the best I've tried so far. Only make these if you're prepared to have your husband say 'This is freaking awesome!' at least a dozen times during dinner. It makes a lot of pork, so you'll need to freeze some. I've used it for burritos, salads and quesadillas.

Cafe Rio sweet pork
Marinade a pork roast in a can of Coke overnight. (Do not use diet.)
Put in crock pot with Coke and cook on low for 8 hours. Drain off any liquid after cooking.
Shred pork and add:
1 can enchilada sauce
2 cloves minced garlic
3/4 small can diced chiles (you can add the whole thing, we just don't like chilies that much.)
1 cup brown sugar

Let cook for another hour, then it's done!

http://realmomkitchen.blogspot.com/2008/05/lauras-version-of-cafe-rio-sweet-pork.html

Cafe Rio House Salad Dressing

1 pkg Hidden Valley ranch dressing mix
8 oz salsa verde
2 med garlic cloves
3/4 cup mayo
3/4 cup sour cream
1/4 cup fresh cilantro
fresh lime to taste (I used about 1/4 of one)

Mix in blender. Needs to chill for several hours before serving. It's thick, so you can thin it with buttermilk if you want, but we like it like this.

-Confession: There are times I want to sell my kids. Does that make me a bad Mom?

This week

In the Poulton house this week:
-H went to a marathon birthday party and made some totally cute flip flops. Yes, made them. I'm not intimidated to throw a party here or anything now.

-T went to day camp for scouts and totally loved it. He came home smelly and dirty, just like you would expect.
-E had picture day and was very excited to wear a new dress for it. (Or new to her. Thankfully she still thinks hand-me-downs are cool.)
-S made some kickin' applesauce at preschool. I got to help in his class that day and it was really fun to see him interacting with his new friends.
-R dumped an entire canister of pepper onto her plate while I was dishing up dinner. I was laughing so hard she probably thinks it's ok to do it again!

-Dad worked very hard in the yard and garage yesterday and the place looks fantastic. He also groaned a lot with football scores, but cheered when UW beat USC. Go Huskies!
-I..... What did I do? Supervised the chaos. Took the dog to get a bath. Washed 15 loads of laundry after the kids decided it was time to get their winter clothes out. Never mind that it's still 90+ degrees outside, they were tickled to be trying on turtlenecks again. Made umpteen meals and did the dishes too many times. Was happy to have my hubby home for the weekend, not just because of how hard he worked yesterday, but because it feels better when he's here. Read 'Austenland' again, and liked it even more the second time. Anything else? Ah yes. Some gory things you don't want to know about. :)
Hope your week was as good and eventful as mine!

Thoughts from a Mom

I always knew I would love my kids, but I had no idea how in love with them I'd be. Does that make sense? I didn't know that a simple smile would melt my heart, or that their laughter could make my heavy heart a little lighter. That an "I love you Mommy" would be all the payment I would need at the end of the day. That spending Saturday night playing Go Fish, being skunked by a four year old, would be such a blast.

How blessed I am to have so much love in my life. There are those that struggle their entire lives to have what I got without even trying. I should know better than to question the Lord and what He has planned for me. He has given me more joy than I knew it was possible to have. More love than I knew one heart could hold. I am going to try and cherish each moment while I have them here. Because in the entire span of their lives, I only get them for a small moment. I'm not trying to say I'm going to be perfect, perish the thought. I am just going to try a little harder to not be in such a hurry to 'get through' this stage of my life.

This is their Easter picture, but I love it, so I posted it again. And the title from my last post was from What About Bob, good job!

Baby-stepping

I haven't been posting lately, but that doesn't mean life hasn't been happening all around me. I've been thinking about my life and contemplating a lot of things. Things I want to change, and know that need to be changed.
Why is change so hard? I hate it. It can be for the better, and yet it is still gut-wrenching. So I'm going to take it one step at a time. That's all I can do. Have patience with me, friends. I'm still here, and so is our family. We're growing and learning and all of that good stuff. I'll keep you posted. :)



P.S. Can anyone tell me where I got my title from?

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